Why “Classy Crossdresser?”

Well, the goal of this site is to share discussions, topics, and content and keep the discussion respectable. This isn’t to say it won’t talk about “sexy” topics, or be prudish, but the goal is to have discussions in an open and as professional as way possible.

This also isn’t to say that the perspective isn’t biased at some points. The site is written by a non-public, heterosexual, average white guy who just enjoys crossdressing when he can. As that writer, web content provider, and host of this content, I have no desire to transition, to live full time as a woman, or anything other than just crossdress periodically. That perspective alone means that some of my viewpoints will be biased, but it also means that as an average guy who has this proclivity, I probably am much more sympathetic to other peoples perspectives of gender fluidity, wherever they fall on the spectrum. It really leaves me with the mindset of, “you do you, whatever makes you happy, as long as it doesn’t hurt someone else.” I am not here to tell you how to live your life. I am just trying to understand how to live my own yet and this website can help share some of the discussions in my own mind as I do it.

I guess the title of the site is also a “nod” to my own personal crossdressing style. I tend toward a style that is probably described as “professional office environment secretary” more than anything else. I’m not a prude, but I think for my own crossdressing, and for women in general, fully clothed professionally dressed is more sexy than trashy any day of the week. So, with that mindset, I guess it’s what I emulate more in my own efforts than anything else.

I hope you as the content consumer here find it somewhat, or at least some of the content, relevant to you, thought provoking, or interesting for your own reading pleasure.

That’s about the best I can hope for.

I do think there are lots more men out there that crossdress, or would if it was more socially acceptable, than the world realizes, or even we as crossdressers realize. We probably have friends that do or would that we have no idea. And in many cases, they probably have no idea about our desires, at-home, in-a-hotel-by-ourselves, or even just-in-our-hearts-and-minds dreams or actions. Perhaps some day, it will become more main stream and we will find our friends that may be just like us even though we don’t know it.

Until then, hopefully you find some of this content worth the read.